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The Danger in Serving Others - Ephesians 6:7-8

Ardy Parlin — Wed, 21 Apr 2010 00:00:00 -0400

"With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men: Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free."

There is great joy in serving others, at first. Over time, it is easy for people being served to become irritated and demanding. Both we (the servers) and the people being served begin to set up EXPECTATIONS. While the people we are serving may not be greedy and self-centered, they may begin to set parameters and new expectations on our service. This can quickly lead to conflict and the feeling that we are being used.

Another problem that can occur in ministering to others is that we begin to have growing expectations. Typically one of those expectations we want fulfilled is gratitude. We expect others to display great expressions of their gratitude for what we have done for them. But often, the people being served share very little gratitude and thankfulness. As a result of these ”expectations,” tension is born in our souls and minds. They want more, and we want them to show gratitude.

What we must remember is that WE ARE SERVING GOD. Our focus must be on Jesus. If we are absorbed in our relationship with Him and understand His Word, we will be more concerned with putting the truth into practice in everyday life then with the accolades of men.

We don’t serve men; we serve God. Look to Him for gratitude, encouragement, strength, wisdom, joy of heart and the blessings associated with being His hand of love, care, sustaining grace, mercy, power, and relief. It is God that loves the world and desires that the whole world know of His love and sacrificial death on the cross and His resurrection from the dead.

What a blessing and joy it is to be His Hand to give a cup of cold water in His name. How much more He is blessed when we give a meal, shoes, love, care and support for the hurting. It is our joy to enter into the “fields of the fatherless” and into the lives of those who are starving and without a place to call home, and to minister to them by giving, sharing, investing, caring and providing.

Remember... we serve God when we are serving others... Matthew 10:42

Today... You Only Have it Once

Ardy Parlin — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 00:00:00 -0400

I Corinthians 9:24-27, Matthew 6:33, Philippians 3:12-16, Romans 12:1-2

For each of us, days slip by basically unnoticed, or we make the most of our days in order to live effective and beneficial lives for impact. A common temptation in life is to drift into the mode of unconcern and undisciplined living, which leads to trouble, regret and heartache.

The Apostle Paul writes in I Corinthians 9:24-27 about the runner who practices self-control, diligence and persistence in order to win a corruptible crown. Stories are told of outstanding athletes, and how they trained for great lengths of time in order to compete in athletic events. But Paul goes on to remind us of our need to strive and run with purpose, persistence and self-control.

The athlete who is devoted and determined to win an earthly crown often brings us to shame when compared to our diligence, persistence, effort and self-control to be more like Christ and to live in obedience to the Word of God. Often believers devote a few moments to Bible reading and prayer, and as a result, they are content and even boast in that fact. Yet athletes spend strenuous hours in training and preparation for the “corruptible crown,” and believers grab a few moments for spiritual intake. Considering these moments are often jammed into a hectic schedule, believers go forth in a hurried fashion into a world of temptations, pressure, immoral exposure, decisions and problems with little or no preparation for the events of life that happen each day.

We would do well to take some lessons from the Word

1. Practice self-control
2. Be temperate in all things
3. Deepen our spiritual knowledge in the Word
4. Meditate in the Scriptures day and night
5. Examine our lives daily
6. Pray for strength and wisdom daily
7. Take all of the filthiness out of our lives

8. Keep under our body

9. Live in the fear of the Lord daily
10. Be light and salt in this dark world.

It would be good for us to keep the words of Johnson Oatman Jr. in our hearts and minds each day. One of the 3,000 songs that he wrote is Higher Ground. The words are:

I’m pressing on the upward way,
New heights I’m gaining every day;
Still praying as I’m onward bound,
“Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.”

My heart has no desire to stay
Where doubts arise and fears dismay;
Though some may dwell where those abound,
My prayer, my aim, is higher ground.

I want to live above the world,
Though Satan’s darts at me are hurled;
For faith has caught the joyful sound,
The song of saints on higher ground.

I want to scale the utmost height
And catch a gleam of glory bright;
But still I’ll pray till heav’n I’ve found,
“Lord plant my feet on higher ground.”

Chorus: Lord, lift me up and let me stand,
By faith, on heaven’s tableland,
A higher plane than I have found,
Lord plant my feet on higher ground.

(From 366 Inspiring Hymn Stories for daily devotions, by Kenneth Osbeck, Kregal Publications, Grand Rapids, Mi.)

A challenge for all of us is to press on to higher ground to be more of who and what God desires us to be today. Why press on? If God should tarry, and we live another year, we will be a more disciplined, prepared and effective tool in the hand of Almighty God. He desires to do extraordinary things with ordinary people, empowered by Him and under His control.

Have a GREAT day, but remember! You only have it once.

The Key to Freedom

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:00:00 -0500

As we journey the roadway of life, we encounter many people and circumstances. In the process, hurt and injury often take place. Hasty or hurting words, neglect, misunderstanding, untruth and other conflicts often are not settled, and thus remain as "open sores" in the inner person. This corruption of the inner man builds and sprouts into other complications. The resulting interactions with people divide friendships, cause splits in churches, and create hotbeds for anger, irritation and physical problems. Unless these situations are handled Biblically, we can sets ourselves up for arguments and a life of bondage and torment over an "unresolved conflict."

In Matthew 5:23-24 we have the directions on what we should do when we offend someone. If this is the case, we are go to the offended one, admit our wrong, seek forgiveness and begin to rebuild the relationship if possible. This is called "seeking forgiveness." Another aspect of forgiveness that goes along closely is "granting" forgiveness.

Granting forgiveness is releasing a person from an offense and agreeing to put the event out of our mind, heart and actions. These instructions are given in Matthew 18:21-35 as Jesus is teaching on the unforgiving servant. The picture painted by Jesus is a servant forgiven of all his debt but NOT willing to forgive his debtor. According to Jesus, the result of being unforgiving is to be "turned over to the tormentors."

Then notice verse thirty-five, "So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not everyone his brother their trespasses." That's right - turned over to the tormentors. The tormentors of today could very well be a bitter spirit, a polluted mind, a corrupted tongue of gossip, complaining and murmuring, loss of friends, broken relationships, etc. All because we choose NOT to FORGIVE another. The end result is to live in bondage and corruption of a soul filled with anger and resentment.

The benefits of forgiveness are many. Release of burden, relief from the burden, joy of being a clean instrument in God's hand, peace of heart and unity where there was disunity and trouble are all benefits of forgiveness. To be a clean vessel in God's hand, we must be in obedience to the Word and Spirit, which includes forgiving others.

To forgive we must be sensitive, sympathetic, understanding, patient and merciful as Jesus is in forgiving us. No conditions, no limits, no questions - just releasing the offense and agreeing to put the matter out of heart, mind and conversation is required. This sets us free to go on in obedience to God in other areas of life. Great burdens are lifted when forgiveness is practiced.

It is vital that we then "renew" our minds (Romans 12:2). This is the part of the process of taking out the bad and putting in the good. This is accomplished as we read, study, and meditate in and on the Word of God daily for spiritual nourishment and cleansing. It is in the power of God's Word, applied by the Spirit of God, where we find strength, grace and wisdom to overcome what was once a mountain in our lives.

Yes, the KEY TO FREEDOM is FORGIVENESS. Obeying God's direction in regards to my relationship with others.

Character is the Key to Greatness

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:00:00 -0500

The Key to Greatness Is not found in position or power but in character. Of course, this thought is contrary to what we hear and see in our culture. But we should not be surprised that the teachings of the Word are far different from the world. Jesus often asked His disciples, "where did you hear that?" and He was referring to some human, worldly response to a life situation.

Many, including Christians, have become brainwashed by the philosophies of the world. This has affected our lifestyles, conduct and behavior, responses, words and life. It's like going into a restaurant that is dark. At first we are bothered by the darkness, but after a few minutes, our eyes become adjusted to the dark, and we become comfortable. This has happened in many areas of our lives, including an inordinate focus on position and power. As Vance Havner said many years ago, "We have become comfortable in the dark," and he was not talking about the restaurant.

Scriptures remind us that CHARACTER is the key to greatness. Character that is based in a personal relationship with Christ and committed to living out the truths of God's Word on a daily basis is REAL GREATNESS. Instead of pushing, shoving and manipulating for power and position, we should be focused on becoming more like Christ and demonstrating the Fruit of the Spirit of God in and through our life.

II Peter 1:1-12 lists some crucial areas of character that are to be cultivated and developed in our lives. This passage reminds us to give "all diligence to add" these things to our lives. They are: faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, and charity. This passage reminds us that if we continue in these things, our lives will not be "barren nor unfruitful." Wow...what a promise!

So, let's get to work. We begin by checking to see if these characteristics are demonstrated in our lives, and if we are living in obedience to the Word. But we are not commanded in Scripture just to "check" on these things, but to cultivate and development these characteristics in our lives.

How?

First: Examine your life.
Second: Be honest about what you know is true.
Third: Confess the sins that God brings to your attention.
Fourth: Aggressively work on these godly characteristics to be strengthened in your life.
Fifth: Pray for God's strength and wisdom.
Sixth: Spend time in the Word and waiting on God DAILY.
Seventh: Look and be ready for ways to live out the truths God is teaching you.

Be careful, do not get drawn into a "worldly, human" philosophy of living and greatness. Rather follow and obey the Word and live to make a difference.

Check out these passages: Matthew 20:20-29, II Corinthians 7:1

Searching for the Right Gift?

Ardy Parlin — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 00:00:00 -0500

The thrill and excitement of opening a gift can be breathtaking; but in a few moments of time, the gift is usually forgotten or discarded. Many times children play with the box and not the gift. Often we spend hours walking though crowded stores searching for the "right" gift, when we have already have "the gift" that really makes the difference in another's life. That is the gift of caring and sharing.

Another tie, box of candy, special tool, or a trinket are not what the multitudes long for; rather it is the GIFT of knowing that someone really cares. Have you ever been lonely and wondered if anyone REALLY cares? Oh yes, you know that God loves you, and He will meet your need, but you long to know that someone loves you and cares.

Is it really important to reach out and help someone in need? In Matthew 25 verse 40 we read, "And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me." A gift that keeps on giving and REALLY makes a difference is food for the hungry, a drink for those who thirst, shelter and clothes for the poor, relief for the sick and reaching out to those who are in the prison of loneliness and physical inability.

There is a GIFT that does make a great difference...and that is the "THE GIFT OF LOVE."

A GIFT that lives on in the heart of the person that receives the love and person that gives the gift.

THE GIFT OF LOVE:

TIME: with someone who is lonely
ENCOURAGEMENT: for someone that has impacted your life
MONEY: for a family that has nothing
FRIENDSHIP: to one who feels he has no friends
HELP: giving time to one in need
FOOD: for a hungry family
COAT: for a person who owns no coat

A little girl traveling alone was making her way from one airline counter to another in the big crowd when she was bumped and her books, doll and other special belongings spilled on the floor. With tears in her eyes, she began to pick up her things while the busy crowd rushed on their way. But then a man, compelled by the NEED of this little girl, stopped and helped her collect her treasures and escorted her to the correct ticket counter. As they were parting, she looked at the man and asked, "Are you Jesus?"

A "cup of cold water" does make a difference.

I Remember...

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 00:00:00 -0500

I was thinking how unique memories are to all of us.

We don’t need a computer to access them.
We don’t need an iPod to listen to them.
We don’t need a TV to watch them.
We don’t need a book to read about them.
We don’t need another person to tell us about them.
We don’t need a camera to take pictures of them.
We don’t need a vehicle to take us to them.

In the last few minutes, I...
Went back to my childhood,
Saw my parents,
Visited my high school football game,
Went to my old church that is no longer there,
And saw my faithful pastor,
Walked the hallways of college and seminary,
Stood at the front of the church and waited for my bride,
Watched as we walked hand-in-hand down honeymoon lane.

Wow! Memories are terrific! There are so many.

Our first car, home, baby, and ministry.
The blessings of God flood the memory pages.
And His grace sustained even in the darkest hours.

Memories - the mental scrapbook that brings joy to my soul.

I remember...

The first bus for Encounter.
The first team and the many that followed.

It seems like a long parade passing through my mind,
bringing joy and gladness to my heart.

Thank You God for memories,
and the tracing of Your Hand on life’s journey.

Memories - take time to make them - for soon, today will be tomorrow,
and time will slip away, but Memories last….

Guard each moment. Build and make memories of joy, peace, happiness, and that which is IMPORTANT.

Living to Make A Biblical Difference Today

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Often, when talking about “winning the world,” we develop complicated schemes and plans to make it happen. In spite of all the technology, methods, plans, buildings, money and success strategies, we are not winning the world. Like a runner going the wrong direction in the fog, we have worked on nearly everything but what the Scripture instructs us to do. Over and over again, we are reminded in Scriptures that believers are to be light, salt, examples, and ambassadors as we live out the truths of God’s transforming power in every day life. We should save our money and work on the way we are living each day.

One of the most obvious things that people see daily is our ATTITUDE. Attitude is our heart and mind on display for the world to see and know. Attitude is the “little thing that makes the big difference.” Attitude is a choice. We can be happy, thankful, appreciative, positive, and attractive in nature, or we can be grouchy, irritable, unthankful, selfish and negative. So which do you think will make an attractive difference to YOUR world today? Let’s check our attitude NOW

• Admit the sin if we discover a bad attitude

• Set our heart/mind on blessings and ways of God

• Thank God for all we are and have

• Determine to make a positive, Biblical influence today

Remember, yesterday is gone forever and tomorrow may never come, so TODAY is all that we have. Let’s make a difference. I

Thessalonians 5:15-22

God is Speaking... Did You Hear Him?

Ardy Parlin — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Many people are waiting for God to write on a wall, appear in a dream or speak audibly in order to know that God is trying to communicate. Although we know that God could write on walls or use any other means that He wishes, we understand that God is speaking to His children through the Word, circumstances, people, books, spiritual music and all situations of life as the Holy Spirit witnesses truth to our inner man. The problem is that many are not listening or are not in a spiritual condition to “hear” God speak. The spiritual “ear” is not really interested in hearing what God is communicating. Often people only want to hear from God when they are in deep problems and need to be rescued and helped. Otherwise, they are happy just to go on in their own self-reliance and wisdom. Another hindrance to hearing God’s voice is that the mind is filled with “corruption” of the world. Scripture reminds us that we must be careful to guard what we allow to enter and stay in our mind, for it is from these thoughts and ideas that our actions, conduct and words are created. Check Matthew 12:34-35, Proverbs 4:23 and other such passages to be reminded that “what” is in the mind is crucial to what is going on in the life. Yet another hindrance to hearing God is a limited amount time in the Word. In II Timothy 3:16 we are reminded that “all Scripture” is from God. We are holding in our hand the Word of God, and He desires to communicate His Word to us, but we MUST read, study, meditate and anchor our lives and minds in the Word. If you want to hear from God and know Him and His will, then spend time in the Word. Be careful! In our “instant society mindset,” it is easy to fall into the trap of busyness with only a few moments for God and His Word. Lack of prayer is another hindrance to hearing God speak. Prayer is not just a time to come and give God a list of wanted things. Certainly, we are encouraged to bring our requests to God, but we must be careful not to get caught up in our list and forget to “wait” and “listen” in the presence of God as He speaks to the heart. A very serious hindrance for the believer is to be involved in sin and failing to respond to the conviction of the Spirit of God to deal with these matters. These “sins” block the way for hearing and knowing the voice of God. One must obediently and Biblically deal with these sins to clear the way for hearing God. Are you in the right place, with the right heart attitude and the right spiritual condition to hear God? Henry Blackaby writes in his book, Hearing God’s Voice, “God is speaking. The problem is people have become disoriented to His voice.” (I suggest you purchase this book for more study on this subject) Yes, God is speaking to His children, but are we listening and obeying?

The Often Neglected Gift... Hospitality

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400

In the hurried, isolated, and self-centered pace of our society, the matter spoken of in 3 John verses 1-5 is often neglected. In this passage believers are being encouraged and instructed to reach out to those in need. In Bible times, traveling evangelists, traveling missionaries and others in need were given lodging and food by caring believers since there were not numerous places to stay like today.

Great blessings and joy of heart are for those who take the time, effort and funds to invest in others by giving them a good meal and perhaps a bed for the night. When I was growing up, this was one of the things that my parents were very good at doing. Although we did not have an abundance, there was always enough for someone in need as my father and mother were ready to open our table and home for a missionary, traveling preacher or just a visitor who was in need. It was my great joy to sit at the table and listen to many of God’s choice workers, because my parents were sensitive enough to give these people a place at our table.

Of course this matter of hospitality is not limited to traveling preachers and missionaries, although there are plenty of them, but we also should consider those of our close friends, neighbors, and fellow church members who are in need. The need may be a meal and shelter, but it also may be the need of fellowship and spending time with other believers. Many churches have instituted a program where members are encouraged on certain times of the month to invite a family over for a snack or meal. This is a good idea, but have we missed something when we must put it in the schedule to be hospitable? What about the Love of Christ compelling us to share what God has so graciously given to us with others? What about doing unto others as we would have them do unto us? Shouldn’t we just “act” like Christians? I have heard stories about missionary families traveling around the country presenting their burden and desire to serve the Lord and then having to sleep in their car or go without meals because no one reached out to them in “hospitality.”

Let’s restore hospitality to our lives again and pray for God to direct us in ministering to others. What a joy it is to be God’s representative and hand in the life of those in need.

To share in ministering to others brings God’s blessings, joy of heart, new (and often life-long) friends and new doors of ministry.

So, whom would God have you to invite to your house for dinner? Do you know a missionary or traveling preacher that is need today? Hospitality is the joy and blessing of meeting the needs of others as God’s messenger of peace.

Wish I Had More Time

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400

How many times have you said or heard someone say “I wish I had more time?” Sometimes a few minutes is all we think we need, and other times we long for additional days and weeks.

Well, of course, we all know that the reality is we are not going to get more time. The richest man in the world and the beggar in the alley have the same amount of time each day. Sometimes we “wish” that the clock would stand still so we could have more time; but in spite of our wishes, this never happens.

Some try to solve the problem of time by going out and purchasing another system or plan for planning and recording of projects. As good as these tools may be, they do not give the user any more time.

So, what is the secret? It is not more time that we need; it is the self-control and discretion to invest our time doing the most important things and spending time with the most important people. We are reminded in Scriptures that time is like a vapor, shadow, or a cup of water spilled on the ground, all of which quickly vanish and cannot be reclaimed.

What we must do is determine God’s agenda for our lives, which directs us to the most important places to invest our time. Often we get involved in more than we can possibly keep up with only to blame God for the problems which we inflict upon ourselves by taking on so many projects and trying to cover so many bases.

What we need to consider are our priorities. What or who should have first place in our hearts and lives? What should consume our energy? What is the best investment of our lives and time? Does what I am doing REALLY make a difference?

Take a few minutes to consider your priority list. Although it may not be written down, everyone has a priority list. Our list should include the following important people and things.
1.    Personal relationship with the Lord.
2.    Family and Home
3.    Health
4.    Job responsibilities
5.    Christian ministries
6.    Spiritual disciplines and growth

There is no magic secret. However, each serious believer should pray for wisdom in determining the events, activities and people that should be included in the daily schedule. It is good to write these things down so you have a plan to follow. In Proverbs 16:3 we are instructed to commit our works to the Lord and He will establish our thoughts and the works will be blessed by Him.

The great traps are to make the list too long, leave out the hard but important things, waste time trying to decide what to do next, and ignoring real needs.

Time. It comes so quietly and leaves so quickly. It cannot be saved or purchased. But it can be invested, given, scheduled, and used wisely.

Look around! Where are you needed today? Who REALLY needs you today? What MUST be done today?

Check these verses: Psalm 90:12, Ephesians 5:15-17, Psalm 39:4, Luke 12:23, Matthew 22: 37-40

Priorites, Pressures, People (Ephesians 5:15-16, Proverbs 16:3, Proverbs 3:5-6)

Ardy Parlin — Thu, 21 May 2009 00:00:00 -0400

One of the great challenges and pressures of everyday life is including all of the people and tasks into our daily schedules. Many people regret wasting time and missing opportunities, so they purchase a time management “tool” in an attempt to save time. How often we hear about families that have been divided because one or both of the parents was not able to get time under control. Marriages are on the edge of disaster because there is no time set aside for cultivating the love relationship that once was growing. Many Christians have guilty pangs in their stomachs every time they see a Bible because their days are beyond full of activity, and the Bible is neglected. Not only are the spiritual lives of Christians on the back burner, but physical exercise is ignored since no time is left in our busy schedules. So we continue on our daily journey of guilt, frustration, pressure and regret; hoping that someday something will happen to change us into organized and productive people with the time to do what we want and what is needed. Well, since we know that hoping is not going to bring about the change we desire, what can and should we do? 1. Remember, if you plan to CHANGE, you will have to CHANGE. 2. Daily prayer for wisdom, direction, vision and understanding. 3. Consider how much time you actually have available to do things outside of the necessary. 4. Determine what MUST be done today. 5. Decide if you have enough time today to complete the task, or if you can carry it over into another day until it is done. 6. Cross out things that you cannot or should not be doing with your time. 7. It is good to have a master list of projects that need to be done some time. 8. Plug in all the things that relate to family and personal growth. 9. Be honest and ask yourself if you can do what you have planned in the time available? 10. Reserve time for quiet time, children, and husband/wife. This will take discipline and diligence, but it is possible to live a life of purpose and meaning couched in relationships that bring joy along with service to God that is productive and Biblical. Remember, the piles of “things” that are advertized to help you “save” time are just tools and only work as you utilize and program them. The machine or paper has no conscience nor concern. Only people can think things through, practice self-discipline, make decisions and have value.

In Everything Give Thanks...

Ardy Parlin — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0400

In everything give thanks... I have been reminded of these words so many times here in Africa. I have seen smiles on the faces of... children with no shoes, men carrying heavy loads on their backs, families with very little food to eat, children that have been abandoned, and pastors riding bicycles for transportation over many jungle miles.

How much does it take to make a person happy? This question remains in my mind these days. So often we try the accumulation of things to bring joy and happiness. This desire to accumulate drives us to work hard only to discover that things do not bring joy. God has blessed us in so many ways, yet we often take the blessings for granted and do not give thanks.

As we handed out candy, pencils and flip flops, the people were so thankful and appreciative. The big smiles of thanks were such a blessing and conviction at the same time. How often we argue about who has the biggest or the most. Would we be thankful for just one of the aforementioned items?

How joyful the people were, singing many songs of praise! The smiles on their faces indicated that the songs were heart-felt. Yet, some of them did not have a building and were worshiping under a thatched roof construction. Others did have a small structure they had built themselves by making the bricks and then constructing the building. No pews, chairs or carpet can be found in their churches. However, sitting on the ground or maybe a concrete or wooden bench with no back did not alter their joy and happiness in the Lord. They were grateful and joined in the worship of the Lord with smiling faces.

What a great blessing to see God working in lives around the world and observing the trust and happiness in His provisions! Maybe it would be good to stop for a few moments, reflect on the blessings of God in your life, and in everything, give thanks to God.

Are You Getting Anything on Sunday?

Ardy Parlin — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0400

I heard a story about a family discussion on the way home from church one Sunday morning. Father was upset because the preacher preached too long, mom did not like the hymn played during the offering, and the college-age sister complained about the soloist being off-key. Little junior sat quietly listening to the whole discussion, and then replied, “Didn’t you think it was a good show for only a dollar?” He must have been watching as father placed his neatly folded dollar bill in the offering plate.

Are we really getting anything out of the time spent in church? Are we there to impress our friends, or do we think God is giving out “brownie points” for all who endure what goes on? Well, there certainly are many sides to this crucial matter. Without question, we live in a day when we need STRONG and EFFECTIVE local churches that are truthfully proclaiming the Word of God and ministering to the spiritual needs of people.

However, maybe it would be good to consider the people coming to church. For a multitude of believers, their church “experience” does not carry much impact. If a casual observer stood in the church auditorium a few minutes before the scheduled start time, he may wonder if anyone was coming. Oftentimes at the last possible second, people flood down the aisle, dragging children and Bibles as they come. Exhausted, they finally find a place. At that moment, the congregation is encouraged to stand and sing praises to the Lord While lips are in gear and words are coming out, the minds, hearts, and emotions are all someplace else. The hustle and bustle of life distracts true worship. Before getting settled, the offering plate is passed, the kids are off to junior church, and the pastor is preaching.

We have our Bibles open, and we look at the words, but our minds are not engaged. Mentally we are rehearsing yesterday and planning next week as we feebly attempt to identify with the pastor’s message. This battle goes on for a few minutes, and we hear an occasional “Amen!” At the conclusion of the service, we smile and tell everyone we are doing “fine.” We gather up our belongings and our children, and we go home.

Wouldn’t it be better if we really planned to get something out of church? A number of years ago while visiting a church in Russia, we arrived early. At least that’s what we thought. But upon opening the door, we discovered that the church was full. Making our way to the platform, I apologized to the pastor for being late, and he responded, “Oh that is fine. We always come one hour before church to sing and pray.”

Well, maybe we can’t come an hour early, but what about arriving early enough to get our minds and spirits in an attitude of worship and waiting on God? Then, maybe we should be “active participants” in the singing and whatever else takes place. If we REALLY came to learn, we would open our Bibles with pen and journal in hand to take notes because we wanted the experience to be a meaningful one. Listening, taking notes, checking the Bible references and hearing God speak to us personally about areas He desires to change in our lives are all signs of that we are engaged in the message.

An active, meaningful, life-changing time at church because we are prepared, early, open and eager to know and obey would make us much better “lights” in the community. As we seek to be “servants” of God to a lost and needy world, “parents” living out the truths that we say we believe, and people of integrity and righteousness in a world of people looking for peace and purpose, let us commit to making the most of Sunday.

Focus in the Right Place?

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Focusing on self is a trap for many people. This wrong focus begins when we compare ourselves with others, are critical of the way others live and think about how important we are to the church and the cause of Christ. It is dangerous to reflect on how much we do for the church and how little some other people do?

Because of the old sin nature, we can quickly and unnoticeably become focused on self. In this state of mind and heart, we tend to do and say things that are not pleasing to God and surely are not edifying to others. It is quite easy to elevate ourselves and become entwined in the downward spiral of self-righteousness.

In Romans 12:3, we are reminded “For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.” Bible teacher and writer Chuck Swindoll said, “The world’s smallest package is a man wrapped up in himself.” While we mentally understand this concept, it often becomes a point of stumbling in daily life and conduct. Unless we are spiritually on guard, PRIDE seeps into our minds and hearts, corrupting our wisdom, judgment and behavior. Many churches have been and are being poisoned by contaminated believers focused on self and filled with pride. As we become more and more consumed with “self,” we easily find people and situations to attack with our “superior spirituality,” which is nothing but pride and the elevation of self into a superior position of judging and pointing out the failures of others.

Many problems would be solved if each believer did as Jesus taught in Matthew 7:1-5. In this passage, He reminds us that we need to concentrate on our own faults, failures, and sins rather than telling others about their issues. What a great vessel for the Master’s use is the person who takes time alone with God in the Word, carefully listening and responding to the Spirit of God to deal with issues that are not in obedience to our Lord. Jesus reminded the disciples that they were caught up in the thinking of the world when they tried to be higher than others.

A contributing factor to thinking higher of ourselves than we ought is we forget what God says in His Word about pride. The reading and meditating on Scripture (verses like II Chronicles 26:15-16; Proverbs 11:2, 16:5, 16:18, 25:6-7, 25:28; Matthew 6:19, 23:6; Luke 22:24; Romans 12:3; I Corinthians 8:1; Philippians 2:3-4; I Timothy 6:17) would help us get the Biblical picture of the consequences of focusing on self.

In light of Scripture, we need to be very careful not to fall into the trap of “elevating self” and critically judging others, for this “focus on self” leads to other sins: trouble, disunity and division. The great preacher and writer of yesterday, Andrew Murray, wrote that “pride is the root of every sin and evil.” Careful meditation and waiting in the presence of God with an open Bible and heart are necessary for God to reveal areas in OUR lives that need to be corrected or changed.

Be Careful, Don't Break It!

Ardy Parlin — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Dishes, vases, glasses and cups are delicate items that can easily be broken if we are not careful. Generally those vessels can be replaced, and the broken ones are soon forgotten.

But what about a life? That's right! Proverbs 18:21 states that, “death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Consider how many relationships have been broken due to an unkind word. Many lives have been shattered due to harsh, cruel or critical words. In many cases, families divide and children look for places of refuge from the cruel words of uncaring and busy parents. Many married individuals sit down for a cup of coffee with a “new attraction” as they search for someone willing to listen and share words of encouragement and concern.

Lonely people struggle as they are locked in the bondage of unconcern and need, waiting for someone to invigorate their lives with refreshing words. Words are so important. A life can be lifted to new heights or cast down to the grave by “words.” A kind, compassionate, caring word of encouragement makes such a lasting impact on people. Our souls are refreshed to know that someone cares enough to speak words of kindness and love to us.

The words of cruelty, hurt and sarcasm penetrate to the inner core and push us down in sorrow and pain. In the book of Proverbs, we are so often reminded about words. Proverbs 15:4 says, “A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit.” In Proverbs 15:23 we read, “A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!”

A good personal study that would be extremely helpful and transforming would be to read through Proverbs, noting every time the matter of” words” is mentioned. This study would reveal that we are admonished to guard our speech so that our words would honor the Lord an average of 5 times per chapter. So, not only should we remember how words influence others, but we also need to understand that God sees, knows, hears, and records our words.

In Scripture we are reminded as well to GUARD the tongue (James 3:3-6), BRIDLE the tongue (James 1:26), be SLOW to speak (James 1:19), choose GOOD words (Proverbs 25:22), and restrain our speech (Proverbs 17:27).

Let’s prepare our hearts and minds to obey the Lord in every aspect of life, especially our speech. Look for opportunities to encourage others and lift them with words of kindness to make a lasting impact that brings honor to the Lord.

A careless word may anger start, A cruel word bring pain and hurt, A timely word will soothe the pain, A loving word a friend regains.

So be careful. We are either building or tearing down.

Drinking at the Right Well - John 4:7, 7:37-38

Ardy Parlin — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0400

How could we ever forget the miracle-working power of God in our lives when He set us free from the penalty and power of sin in our lives and implanted the “new life” of Christ in us? What a wonderful and glorious day when He washed our sins away! Like the woman at the well in John 4, we met Him, Who alone is the Living Water to all who believe and surrender their lives to Him. The truth of new life in Christ brought joy, peace, contentment, relief and release for the soul in bondage of sin.

But what happened? Why is it that many believers do not have “living water” flowing freely from their lives? Why is it that discouragement, depression, self-pity and worry are now flowing freely from the believer’s life instead of peace, joy and contentment? The answer is that by pursuing the “things” of this life, the believer has unwisely begun drinking at the “wrong” well. The weary believer drinks at the well of worldliness and fleshly pursuits, the well of significance and pride, the well of indulgence of the mind in fleshly, sinful and sexual fantasy, and the well of selfishness while ignoring the clear Word of God to come and drink.

I watched some children draw water from an old well one day while ministering in Moldova. As they confidently dropped the bucket into the well, they demonstrated a belief that there was water in the well, and it was “good” water that would meet their physical needs.

We must be careful that we are drinking at the “right” well, the well of the Word of God. It is only in the Word of the Living God that we can have our soul washed, refreshed, enlightened, blessed and directed. It is the Word that keeps us from evil and allows us to have the “voice” of God working in our hearts and lives all day every day. It is in the Word of God that we discover His promises that give direction for the future, sustaining grace for the present, and strength when we cannot understand. It is the Word of God that gives vision, creates a genuine desire to follow and obey our Lord, and opens the eyes of our souls to see the needs of those around us as God sees. It is in the study of the Word of God that we discover where to invest our finances and store up our wealth. It is in the Word of the Living God that one receives guidance on how to use and invest this vapor of time that we call life.

That’s just the beginning! For the Word of God is inexhaustible, trustworthy, reliable, without error, understandable and much more.

So, let’s be careful to drink at the well of living water, where we meet and come to know our Living Lord.

READ the Word. STUDY. MEDITATE (that is think earnestly on it). MEMORIZE the Bible. OBEY and SHARE it with others.

The Apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians 5:15 to “see then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise” lest we become attracted to “life” from a well that is filled with that which would draw us away from the Lord. Just because a well has something in it does not mean that it is good and helpful.

“If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink; He that believeth on me, as the scriptures hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.” John 7:37-38

Check the Seed

Ardy Parlin — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:00:00 -0500

How easy it is to say or do things, and then hope that nothing adverse or difficult happens as a result. For example, a person gossips and then hopes that no one finds out (or better yet, the person hopes he is not the subject of gossip himself). Students that do not study for tests and then pray that they will not fail are not in touch with reality.

Consider the seriousness of the situation when people continue to disobey the Bible by sowing acts of unkindness, impurity, selfishness, immorality, jealousy, anger, etc., and then “hope” that nothing will happen as a result of their actions. Evidently, they have forgotten the “law of the harvest.” Galatians 6:7-8 reminds us that we “reap what we sow.” Not only is the law of the harvest true in the field, but also in life.

I once read about a man with a sign over his seed store that read, “If you don’t like the crop you are getting, you should check the seed you are planting.” As sure as that’s true for the farmer, it is true that people who are discontent with life need to consider how they are living. For instance, remember what Jesus talked about in Matthew 7:1-5? In this passage, we are instructed not to be judgmental of others; for if we are, then the same treatment will be passed on to us. If you plant the seeds of “judging,” prepare to be on guard. On the other hand, the Scriptures remind us that if we are to have friends, then we must show ourselves friendly. What we plant is important!

Are you happy with the “crop” you are getting in your life? If not, maybe you should consider what you are planting. Are you planting the seeds of kindness, obedience, love, mercy, purity, grace, patience, joy, diligence, self-control, virtue, charity, giving, pleasantness, respect, etc.? The farmer does not plant the wrong seed and then stand out over his fields and pray for God to do a miracle to change the crop. In the same manner, we should not plant wrong seeds and expect God to prevent the crops of our disobedience, impurity, unkindness, impatience and lack of self-control from coming up.

If you do not like the “crop” you’re getting, maybe you should check to see what you are planting. This requires: 1. Honest examination of our lives 2. Careful confession of sin 3. Determined commitment to change what God reveals is wrong 4. Consistent flooding of mind and soul with the Word 5. Earnest prayer for God’s empowering 6. Daily planting of “right” seeds

Thank God for His forgiveness, cleansing and grace to work in our lives as we endeavor to walk and live in obedience to His Word. “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” (I Corinthians 10:31)

Out of Control... Is Dangerous

Ardy Parlin — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 00:00:00 -0500

News reports regularly remind us that great tragedy occurs when vehicles are out of control. Sometimes the cause is driver miscalculation; while in other cases, a lack of focus on driving due to distractions causes the vehicle to careen wildly. Multitudes of lives are lost each year, vehicles are destroyed and tragedy invades the lives of so many with cars out of control.

Being out of control is dangerous, not just with vehicles but also with people. Paul instructs us in I Corinthians 9:27, “But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection; lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway.” Many people have suffered “injury” when someone out of control said and did things that were destructive and harmful. Outbursts of anger accompanied by yelling, criticizing, judging and ridiculing become barriers and destroyers in relationships. Unkind and unnecessary words from the out of control person penetrate to the inner person causing deep hurt and pain.

On the contrary, self-control is the obedient response to the Word of God that causes a person to stop and refuse to get involved in sins of impurity. By keeping under the body and bringing it into control, we are protected. The Spirit of God convicts, directs, and reminds the believer of what is right in the sight of God, but it is up to each believer to demonstrate self-control and walk in the pathway of the Bible, thus avoiding sinful pursuits.

In Proverbs, Solomon describes this concept with the phrase “rule the spirit." (Proverbs 16:32) Ruling the spirit is doing what is right and avoiding evil. It is responding under control to situations, temptations and people. Ruling the spirit is controlling and guiding our thoughts, desires, attitudes and conduct so that we respond in obedience to the Bible in every aspect of life. Our actions will demonstrate whether we are ruling our spirit.

Ruling the spirit is vitally important so that God will be honored and glorified in our lives. Additionally a controlled spirit will speak good words to the use of edifying grace unto the hearers (Eph. 4:29) so that others will be encouraged and edified. It is “keeping under our body,” as Paul states, that causes us to make the right decisions. Getting out of bed to have our quiet time, making right decisions, staying away from places of temptation, using our time correctly, and not becoming angry and defensive are a few instances of self-control throughout the day.

Consider this! The testimony and witness of the church is marred and scarred when believers act and respond in a manner that is not honoring to the Lord. The “out of control” lifestyle causes great damage.

Whether at the ballgame, work, church, or home, “out of control” is dangerous. We should pray for wisdom and direction, confess the sin of being “out of control” to God and seek forgiveness from those affected. Meditation in the Word of God empowers us to practice patience with others. In obedience to God let’s “keep under our bodies and bring them into subjection” to the Word of God and leading of the Spirit of God.

Little Things Make A Big Difference

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Little things really do make a difference. If you don’t believe it, try walking with a tiny pebble in your shoe. Still not convinced? Drop a small speck of dirt in your eye. These “little things” really do make a difference, and if not removed, alter our lives greatly.

Just as a stone or speck of dirt make a difference, so does a “word.” In Proverbs 25: 11 we read, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” A single word makes an enormous difference. How often do we ramble without really giving much thought to the words? Be careful! The Scriptures remind us that words “give life or death”(Proverbs 18:21), they start or diffuse arguments (Proverbs 15:1), they are to be spoken carefully (Proverbs 10:19) and sometimes, they should not be spoken at all (Proverbs 13:3). Pleasant words are “sweet to the soul” (Proverbs 16:24), and it is wise to carefully think though what we are going to say.(Proverbs 29:11) These thoughts are just the beginning for the instructions found in Proverbs concerning “words.” Another fantastic source of guidance and direction concerning the tongue is James 3:1-10.

Experts have tried to count how many words are spoken by the average person each day. Although they do not agree on the exact number, we may be shocked to discover that the number of words are in the thousands. So each day, we all write a small book in the words that we speak. A more compelling question than “how many” words is “which ones?”

We have the opportunity to be an instrument in God’s hand to bring His Good News of salvation and deliverance from the penalty and power of sin. Perhaps we have the assignment of giving a word of encouragement or blessing to a desperate person who has given up on life. Maybe our “light” could shine in a dark world as we speak kindly to the lady at the grocery store, the clerk in the department store, or the student who is experiencing great troubles. As our sensitivity increases, we will notice that needy people are everywhere. As believers, we are to be vessels in the Master’s Hand to do His work.

But often we are so focused on ourselves that there is little concern for others. Self-centeredness and self-pity hold many Christians in bondage to their own problems and concerns. Of course we all have things of great concern, but we are not to be “slaves” to these things. In fact, Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:25-34 that we are not be wrapped up in our needs and problems, but we are to commit them to the Lord and then to “seek the things of God.” One of the things He would have us to do is to be His messenger of peace to others.

Here is a suggestion... Commit your needs and problems to the Lord, and then pray about how you will use your “tongue” today. Ask the Lord if there is someone special that you should contact with a “good word.” Perhaps you should write your good word and send some long overdue thank you notes. You know studies have shown that a hand written note means more than a purchased card. So set aside a few minutes to write some notes of encouragement and thanks.

Yes... a little thing does make a big difference, especially when that “little thing” is a “word fitly spoken.” Have great day investing, caring, encouraging, lifting and bringing good news to others.

A Good Start Does Not Guarantee A Good Finish - Acts 20:24

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Many athletes have discovered with regret that a good start is important, but it does not guarantee a good finish. From the start to the finish, the athlete faces many challenges, and the responses throughout the entire competition really matter.

So it is with life. At the beginning of a new year, we make resolutions and set goals. With good intentions and determination, we begin the “race.” However, we soon discover that it takes more than writing out the resolution. It requires discipline, diligence, steadfastness, sacrifice and more.

If we desire to finish well in our life course, then it is crucial that we carefully consider what we are doing each day to keep us on the “right track.” Just as the runner who desires to have a good finish commits to specific disciplines, believers must do the same if they desire to finish well.

A key element is finishing well is SETTING ASIDE TIME EACH DAY to meet with God. (Psalm 5:3, 1:1-3) This is sometimes referred to as the Quiet Time or Holy Hour. Well, it’s not important what we call it, but it is critical to staying on track and having a good finish. The daily Quiet Time is just that: a specific time that we set aside to read the Bible, examine our lives, apply Biblical truth to our lives, pray, and wait quietly for God through the Spirit to minister to us in various areas of need. It is in this quiet time that we get direction for the day, wisdom and insight for life, reminders of God’s working in our lives and the opportunity to bring requests for others and our self to the throne of God.

Secondly, if we plan to finish life well, we must guard the mind. (Proverbs 4:23) The Bible has much to say about the importance of what goes in the mind and inner person. The reason we must guard our inner person so closely is because our words, actions, responses, desires and conduct in general reflect what is inside. Certainly we cannot pour just anything into the mind and expect good to come out of it. Check out Philippians 4:8 as the Apostle Paul gives instruction regarding what we should allow to stay in our minds. Many people live in regret, sorrow, shame and trouble because of the “garbage” allowed to enter the mind and thus affect the life.

Another ingredient necessary to a good finish is obedience to caring for things we have allowed to enter our lives which are not pleasing to God and are distractive to finishing well. These sins usually begin as “little” sins, which in time, grow to consume us and bring us into bondage. Certainly the athlete would struggle to finish if he tried to carry things with him in the race. Obviously, the athlete determined to win does not carry any excess baggage or weight. So we too must eliminate all the excess things (sins) in our lives in obedience to God.

To have a good finish, we must follow the rules. Just as the athlete cannot ignore the rulebook, neither can we. We must be determined and disciplined to obey the Word in every aspect of life. The Bible must be our guide and rule in every aspect of life to have a good finish.

Want to finish well? Granted there are other important matters to consider, but here is a place to start. If a good start does not guarantee a good finish, then we would agree that what we do each day determines whether the type of finish we will have. So decide NOW and regularly check, change, and adjust your life to the Word and work of God in your life to FINISH WELL! Look at Ecclesiastes 12:13-14. Keep your eyes on the finish line and run the race of obedience each day.

Truth for Difficult Times

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 00:00:00 -0500

Many people today are facing various kinds of difficulties and seemingly impossible situations. These unexplainable and surprise events cause suffering, loss, question, problems and other uprooting changes. One of the most helpful ways to learn God’s truth is to see it lived out and demonstrated in the lives of Bible characters. In II Corinthians 4:9-18, the Apostle Paul writes about difficult and impossible situations in his life; and if anyone can speak from experience, he can.

As we read Paul’s words and consider other followers of the Lord God, we can discern some lessons that apply to our situations. Let’s think for a few minutes about some life-sustaining lessons found in Scripture and apply them to our lives for victory and power in difficult times.

One lesson we learn in difficult situations is that God will use these situations to STRENGTHEN OUR FAITH. Like the children of Israel standing on the edge of the Red Sea with the sound of the enemies in the distance, our times of struggle demand an increase faith. It is so easy to become self-sufficient in our society of abundance that it often becomes difficult to trust God.

A second lesson we can see in difficulties is that our ways are not God’s ways. God’s ability to see and know the entire picture is so different from our limited, short-sighted vision. While we are prone to work things out quickly, that is not necessarily God’s way. This lesson was certainly demonstrated in the life of Joseph as recorded in Genesis 25-50.

Another lesson that comes into view in difficult situations is the reminder that God has promised never to leave us as stated in Hebrews 13:5. It often takes times of difficulty to bring us to the remembrance of God’s presence and power.

A fourth lesson to learn is God does not generally respond in our time of planning or expectation. Daniel may have wished that God would show His power before the lions’ den, but God allowed Daniel’s faith to be strengthened and His power to be known by allowing Daniel to be placed in a seemingly impossible situation.

Yes, there are times of difficulty and struggle. However, it is during these times that God desires to do a great work in the hearts, minds, thoughts, behaviors, attitudes and influences of His children. It is during these times that we must be careful not to run ahead of God’s timing and direction or become frustrated and depressed. We must be diligent to spend time in prayer and study of the Word, allowing God to work in our lives. It is also important to be cautious when listening to advice or counsel. Be certain that your counselors demonstrate a life of love and obedience to God.

Recently while waiting on God in one of these “difficult” and “seemingly impossible” situations, I was directed to II Corinthians 12:8-9, and the Spirit of God lovingly reminded me that it is in my weakness that His strength is made strong. Although my flesh loathes these times of weakness, God desires me to see it in this light so I can “glory in my infirmities” as Paul writes about. As I was bathing my soul in these thoughts, I was quickly reminded of I Thess. 5:18 and the instruction to “give thanks for everything.”

Difficult and impossible situations look much differently in the light of these truths. I trust that God will use these principles to help guide you through the difficult times you are facing.

Cultivating a Merry Heart

Ardy Parlin — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 00:00:00 -0500

There are times when it seems that everything goes so smoothly; problems are at a minimum, and life just passes from day to day. During these times joy is easily displayed, we have a relaxed spirit, and laughter and smiles comes easily.

But then life begins to take some unknown turns, health questions arise, finances do not last as long as needed, plans fall apart; and if we are not careful, we quickly slide into a mood of depression, negative thinking, loss of focus and self-pity, and the joyful spirit is replaced by a sorrowful and negative spirit.

In Proverbs 17:22 we read, “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine, but a broken spirit drieth the bones.” When we are physically ill, we take medicines to conquer the illness. Likewise, when we detect that our “spirit” is ill, and we are sinking into despair, self-pity and depression, we ought to take some “Biblical” medicine to cultivate a merry heart. If we were going to “cultivate the garden,” we would understand that this would require energy and effort; for cultivating does not just happen. Well, neither does cultivating a merry heart.

In order to cultivate a merry heart, we need to: 1. Read the Bible: for it is through the Word that God speaks to His own. (Psalm 119:105) 2. Pray: Bringing our thanks and requests to the Living God. (Matthew 6:5-15) 3. Thank God for all circumstances: (I Thessalonians 5:18) 4. Be thankful for all God’s blessings: (Psalm 103:1) 5. Confess sins of self-pity, bad spirit and complaining: (I John 1:9) 6. Pray for wisdom and commit to speaking words that honor God and encourage others. (Ephesians 4:29) 7. Change thought patterns. (Philippians 4:8) 8. Sing a song (at least in your heart/mind) such Count Your Blessings. 9. Commit to living, walking, talking and thinking in obedience to the Word. (I Samuel 15:22) 10. Set a goal to find people in need of love, help, encouragement, food, clothes, shelter or some other needs and give as God leads. (Matthew 25:31-46)

You may ask, “If I do all this, will my problems go away?” Well, of course not, but your attitude and spirit will change because you have changed your focus; and further more you will be in a place where God can bless and use you. Just as a productive garden does not just happen, neither does a “merry heart” and life, for it must be cultivated. Medicine does not always taste good, and so it is possible that cultivating a merry heart might require some things that are not as pleasant as we wish…but the results are so WONDERFUL! A pleasant attitude of kindness, joy, love, compassion and uplifting words flow out of a merry heart focused on God’s blessings and obedience to the Word of God. Families, marriages, friendships and bodies of believers in the church can and will be changed if believers would concentrate on cultivating a merry heart.

Ok, let’s get to cultivating and watch God working in our lives to change us, the people around us, and those that we have the joy of impacting with the presence of the Lord in our conduct.

Take a Walk: Matthew 6:24-30, 13:22

Ardy Parlin — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 00:00:00 -0500

A common thread runs through a vast majority of believers today which controls, hinders, distracts, stops and controls them. It causes arguments, conflicts, hurts, division and regret. This common thread is STRESS.

Stress is inner tension holding one in chains of worry and pressure. Stress is often connected to financial issues relating to time, energy and focus. Perhaps we should consider the Biblical prescription for stress---TAKE A WALK. That’s right! Take a walk outside to observe the birds and the flowers. The birds are pecking away for food, chirping happily as they go about life and doing what is natural to them as God created and intended. The lesson I can learn is if I will trust God and stay in a right relationship with Him, He has promised to care for my needs. That is what God teaches in His Word. Since I cannot make anything better by worrying, I need to trust God.

Consider the flower. Look at how the flower stands strong and beautiful. The uniqueness of the flower reminds me of the great power of the God Who has promised to care for me. The beauty and design point to the great Designer and Creator. As I watch the bird fly away and am awed by the beauty of the flower, the Spirit of God whispers in the ear of my heart. “If your Heavenly Father would take care of these, how much more is He concerned about you. Do not be consumed by worry and fear, but trust God, because He knows all about you and your problems. Set your attention on being in the right relationship with God and doing His will in all matters, and He has promised to care for you. Focus on today, be faithful and obedient to God. Trust and obey, for there is no other way to be happy in Jesus.”

Overloaded with stress? Take a walk, look at the birds and flowers, and LISTEN TO THE SPIRIT OF GOD as He assures you of God’s promises and power and reminds you to make your relationship RIGHT with God so you know His will and way for your life.

STRESSED: STOP…LOOK..LEARN…HEAR…CONFESS…COMMIT…OBEY…AND GO IN PEACE. Have a great time on your walk.